Pro and Contra To be to young Married (materi Debat)
1.
Definition
Marriage is
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Coat the endorsement of an agreement
(contract) between a man and a woman (in traditional societies that also shall
mean the agreement between the family or clan), on the basis of equal rights and
obligations of the two parties
·
Submission of a total female to male
·
Events as a father officially handed
over his daughter to another man for a "used" at will man
·
Young marriage
is a marriage performed by a pair of male and female adolescents
The purpose of marriage is
·
To be legally endorsed sex between
men and women
·
To the law governing the rights and
obligations of each including the polygamy prohibition or inhibition
·
Recognition of the legal rights of
children resulting from the marriage
·
To collect data
and demographic interests
The
Fact :
o
Young people in West Java was first married on
average at the age of 17-18 years
o
The average age of these young
marriages took place in the northern coast, the south coast and in the
mountains
o
Java, Yogyakarta, Central Java and
Jakarta on average marry at the age of 19 years
o
West Java, one of Indonesia's
largest penymbang AKI retains cases of marriage of women under the age of 16
years a considerable amount.
o
Central
Statistics Agency said 21.75% of girls in urban married at age below 16 years
and 47.79% in rural areas
The Law
Marriage
law no. 1 of 1974 Article 7, paragraph 1
Marriage is only allowed if the man has reached the age of 19 years and the woman has reached 16 years
Marriage is only allowed if the man has reached the age of 19 years and the woman has reached 16 years
The reason young marriage• socio-cultural factors
• Economics
• Education
• Religion
2. (
The reasons for the pros early marriage: From some of the reading that we have read the reasons most are carried by those who agree with early marriage is to avoid casual sex. According to those in this age where pornography is so easily accessible, plus free association then early marriage is the solution to avoid. Young Married apparently not due to 'have the time' or 'era' anymore, but rather on one's choice. If you think there is no advantage marry young, try to consider the following points.
Pro
Married Young
• At a young age, women are more energetic. Take care of the work, the household, the husband and children could do with gusto.
• Young women have too many life experiences and thoughts are still innocent so psychologically less burdened. All household responsibilities could do without thinking things.
• women's health conditions are usually best when he was at a young age so it is less risky to give birth. In addition, the child's birth intervals also more manageable because it is not limited by age.
• Young women have more people around. His friends are still fresh in your mind, parents are still not advanced age, especially if the grandmother and grandfather are still healthy. More and more people are close together, the more people that can be used in a wedding consultant.
• At a young age, women are more energetic. Take care of the work, the household, the husband and children could do with gusto.
• Young women have too many life experiences and thoughts are still innocent so psychologically less burdened. All household responsibilities could do without thinking things.
• women's health conditions are usually best when he was at a young age so it is less risky to give birth. In addition, the child's birth intervals also more manageable because it is not limited by age.
• Young women have more people around. His friends are still fresh in your mind, parents are still not advanced age, especially if the grandmother and grandfather are still healthy. More and more people are close together, the more people that can be used in a wedding consultant.
3. Example
1)
Early Marriage in Saudi Arabia
Differences of opinion about marriage minors in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia, re-bloom this week. Royal Mufti, Sheikh Abdul Aziz Al-Sheikh said, no matter the child ten years of marriage.
"One not to allow children 15 years and under to get married. Daughter ten years and men 12 years old can marry. People who think that the children were too young to get married, it's wrong and unfair to both of them," said Aziz told the daily al-Hayat and quoted by CNN, Saturday (17/1).
The discourse about the minors wedding a warm conversation among conservative Saudi Arabia in recent months. Last December, Judge Sheikh Habib Abdallah al-Habib, refused to annul the marriage of a girl of eight years with a 47-year-old man.
He rejected the petition of the girl's mother that it was her husband's wedding in exchange for paying the debt of a close friend. The judge then asked the old man from the boy's husband to sign a statement that he would not still screwed it up his wife has reached its puberty or legal age.
Last month, a spokesman for the Human Rights Commission of the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia's Zuhair al-Harithi said marriage minors Contrary to international agreements. And the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia have signed the agreement. "I will Intervene and stop cases of under-age marriage is. Unless the child is married elsewhere," al-Harithi DEMANDED.
Differences of opinion about marriage minors in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia, re-bloom this week. Royal Mufti, Sheikh Abdul Aziz Al-Sheikh said, no matter the child ten years of marriage.
"One not to allow children 15 years and under to get married. Daughter ten years and men 12 years old can marry. People who think that the children were too young to get married, it's wrong and unfair to both of them," said Aziz told the daily al-Hayat and quoted by CNN, Saturday (17/1).
The discourse about the minors wedding a warm conversation among conservative Saudi Arabia in recent months. Last December, Judge Sheikh Habib Abdallah al-Habib, refused to annul the marriage of a girl of eight years with a 47-year-old man.
He rejected the petition of the girl's mother that it was her husband's wedding in exchange for paying the debt of a close friend. The judge then asked the old man from the boy's husband to sign a statement that he would not still screwed it up his wife has reached its puberty or legal age.
Last month, a spokesman for the Human Rights Commission of the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia's Zuhair al-Harithi said marriage minors Contrary to international agreements. And the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia have signed the agreement. "I will Intervene and stop cases of under-age marriage is. Unless the child is married elsewhere," al-Harithi DEMANDED.
2)
Cindy celebrity couples Fatika Sari
and Tengku Firmansyah and Marshanda an Ben Kasjafani are examples of those who
marry young and have a happy family.
4. Conclusion
Our conclusion is that early marriage is
permissible. because marriage is not just based on age
alone. but, what is important is
the mental and physical readiness necessary to build a lasting domestic
and prosperous
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